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He-Man and Masters of The Universe: 5 Smartest Heroes Ranked – Honk News

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Masters Of The Universe is a hot land for Mattel because the early 80s, and the franchise keeps popping up in one form or another, to the day.

With a recently declared animated Netflix reboot show and a possible live-action movie in the works, it seems He-Man is not quite ready for the dust-bin of the background just yet.

Now were taking a look at the 5 smartest characters at the He-Man world, and we are ranking them out of brilliant, to genius-level! Time to take another journey back to Eternia!

Thats not entirely accurate, nor fair, although Orko is a bumbling buffoon. Orko is smartly lacking in self-awareness. This Trollan magician was exceptionally proficient however, the loss of a magic amulet prevented him from controlling his powers on Eternia, in which the laws of nature differ.

Intellectual or although not as educated as to the others on this listing, Orko was to foil a few of Skeletors plans, even going so far as to beat him in a battle of magic in the comic book collection.

Man-At-Arms adopted daughter Teela bears ill-temperament of a young kid and all of the rashness, but she is also an accomplished fighter and a master tactician to boot.

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This could have something related to her lineage, given shes the girl of the Sorceress of Grayskull.

Teela might not be a fountain of knowledge as a result of her childhood, but her quick wits, keen wisdom and common sense make up for this though she finds herself getting into trouble!

The fellow is named General, a master fighter, military tactician and Duncan in the Royal guard of Eternia. Hes one of just three who understand He-Man and Battle Cats identities, and his heritage with the Sorceress is complex and deep.

As a skilled inventor, Man-At-Arms is a technical genius. This intellectual art puts him a cut above many of his contemporaries while demonstrating how valuable he is to the team of heroes that the residents in Grayskull.

This thespian used his abilities to live in a universe that had shunned him, due to his distinctive ability to switch between three faces at will.

After escaping the will of Beast-Man to turn him into one of the henchmen of Skeletor, Man-E-Faces was welcomed into the Royal Court of Eternia to pursue his dream of acting.

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The 2002 reboot attracted his character, Though he does not feature in the 1980s TV series. Here, buffs were received by Man-E-Faces based on which face he took at any given moment.

Specifically, his robot face would provide a boost in prowess, even so much as to make him a boxing champion to him.

Nothing could be farther from the truth, although the primary hero himself may resemble a man lacking in grey matter.

He-Man is an enthusiast who would like to use his superhuman strength for functions. Hes also a calculated warrior who understands the significance of taking a step back and assessing a situation.

This has allowed one to avoid conflicts with seemingly dangerous threats, instead of using diplomacy and compromise to win daily.

He-Man also uses his intelligence to prevent occurring threats from harming others, such as volcanoes and lava flows. He-Man will constantly use his skills of perception and logic to overcome any issue, rather whenever possible.

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By regular practice of Bhavana or Buddhist meditation, one could go beyond everyday consciousness to a deeper level of consciousness or a deep state of mental calm which leads one to a state of awakening to realities of life, to self-understanding and the ultimate meaning of life. According to the teachings of the Buddha, Bhavana is the key to understanding your true nature or discovering who you truly are. It helps one to develop ones understanding of oneself that comes from a clear view of reality. Buddhist meditation is not a means of escaping reality. It enables one to discover who you really are. In other words, meditation helps one to unmask the causes of ones stress, discontentment, and suffering and to dispel ones mental confusion. Deep meditation helps one to develop emotional intelligence, self-regulation, and empathy necessary for successful relationships to face interpersonal challenges and eventually to experience true happiness.

Samatha and Vipassana are the two common types of Bhavana or Buddhist meditation practices or methods of mental development that help to raise human consciousness to a higher level, bringing ones mind to a state of equilibrium. Samatha is the development of tranquility and Vipassana is the development of insight. Samatha aims only at concentration whereby the individual is constantly conscious of one object and this concentration is directed along a single channel of one-pointedness until serene mental tranquility is reached. It is noteworthy that this form of mental development does not bring about an understanding of reality, nor of its cause and effect. It brings only tranquility. One can begin with Samatha or the development of mental tranquility and after having achieved concentration, one can proceed to vipassana or the development of insight or wisdom.

Vipassana meditation practice purifies the mind to enable it to gain insight. Insight means wisdom which enables one to see that mental states and matter are impermanent or transitory, unsatisfactory or suffering, and non-self or impersonal. Vipassana is the realization of the three signs of being- anicca (impermanence), dukkha (suffering), and anatta (non-self), by direct insight at a deeper level of awareness at an intuitional plane where it is experienced as a psychological fact

SELF AWARENESS

Complete self-awareness is possible only by those who have advanced in the development of their minds through regular meditation. Such a mind can have a clear perception of what you, in fact, is mistakenly considering as yourself. According to Buddhism, there is no permanent soul or self. An individual is subject to constant change, as the elements or skandhas that constitute the individual or what we identify as me, or self is a combination of five constantly changing skandhas. A person may be compared to a river, which retains an identity, though the drops of water that make it up are different from one moment to the next. There is no one, no soul or self sitting inside me, as we think there is. Anatta or no permanent self is at the core of the teachings of the Buddha.

In other words, what we identify as self is a combination of five skandhas or aggregates, namely:

1. rupa or the body or the manifest form of the four elements earth, air, fire & water; 2. vedana or sensations or feelings; 3. sangna or perceptions of sense objects; 4. sankaras or mental formations; 5. vinnana or consciousness or awareness of the other mental aggregates.

These five skandhas sum up the whole of an individuals mental and physical existence. They are impermanent, constantly changing, transient processes that function continuously on an ongoing basis and we cling on to these processes considering them as self. In other words, the tendency is us to consider the skandhas as self and to cling on to the illusion of a permanent self. Identifying themselves with their transient personal characteristics such as thoughts, feelings, volitions, and consciousness with the notion of permanence, people cling on to these transient skandhas. Such attachment brings about craving, greed and associated fear, hatred, jealousy and prejudice resulting in stress and suffering. In order to find deep abiding peace and serenity, we need to learn to let go of any attachment to or habit of fixating on to a self-identity.

If we really want to get rid of suffering, completely and totally, then clinging to the illusion of a permanent self must be dropped. Letting go of ones attachments is not an easy task. In order to be free of attachments and thereby free of suffering one must realize the non-existence of this illusion of self. This calls for wisdom or a higher degree of mental development or a deeper level of consciousness available when you focus your mind in meditation. In other words, such a mind can be developed by those who have advanced in the development of their minds through regular meditation.

Buddhism stands unique in the history of human thought in denying the existence of a separate soul or self. According to the teachings of the Buddha, the idea of a soul or self is an imaginary false belief which has no corresponding reality. It produces harmful thoughts of me and mine. The self is not a rigid, unchanging entity but a living evolving organism. It is an ever-growing changing bundle of attributes or characteristics, forming our character and personality. All defilements like greed, hatred, and ill-will, etc., have their root in the wrong notion of a soul or self. The hindrance caused by defilements like greed, hatred, etc., is eliminated by the realization of the doctrine of no soul. The Buddha teaches that, what we call ego, self, soul, personality, etc., are merely conventional terms not referring to any real independent entity. And he teaches that there is only to be found this psycho-physical process of existence changing from moment to moment. Without understanding the ego-lessness of existence, it is not possible to gain a real understanding of the Buddha-word; and it is not possible without it, to realize that goal of emancipation and deliverance of mind proclaimed by the Buddha.

According to Buddhist teachings, what we regard as self or ego or soul are miscomprehensions arising from lack of knowledge of absolute truth about these so-called entities. In reality self is but a very rapid continuity of birth and decay of mental states and matter. Insight has as its function, the destruction of all hidden defilements, cravings and wrong views. The insight will enlighten us to the true nature of mental states and matter or in other words that mental states and matter are not lasting, they bring about suffering. Mental fetters bind us tightly to dukkha or suffering. These fetters are mind defilements namely, greed, hatred and delusion (loba dosa moha), along with their many offshoots such as anger, malice, jealousy, stinginess, hypocrisy, obstinacy, conceit, arrogance, vanity and heedlessness.

THE NOBLE EIGHTFOLD PATH

Self-purification is a prerequisite for the removal of these defilements. The work of self-purification is to be undertaken by treading the Noble Eightfold Path, with its three divisions of virtue, concentration and wisdom (seela, samadhi, panna). Each of these divisions of the Eightfold Path is intended to remove the defilements at successively subtler levels. It is only when these defilements have been completely uprooted by direct insight into the true nature of phenomena through deep meditation practice, that dukkha can be completely removed and Nibbana or the highest happiness, peace freedom and security is attained right in this very life. The Buddha points out that real happiness, peace, freedom, and security must be attained by overcoming these mental defilements. The training in samadhi or concentration aims at eliminating the active eruption of the defilements into our thought processes. Panna or wisdom helps to eradicate defilements at the fundamental level. It is only when these defilements have been completely uprooted by wisdom or by direct insight into the true nature of phenomena, that ignorance is completely removed, and one reaches the state of highest happiness, peace, freedom, and security right in this very life.

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Signs and help for dealing with the stress of the COVID-19 outbreak – WTHR

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INDIANAPOLIS (WTHR) Concerns over COVID-19 could be leaving you or your loved ones stressed.

Eyewitness News reached out to Community Health Network and got these tips and resources to help:

If you experience signals of distress for several days in a row without any relief, you might want to reach out to your primary care physician, a mental health professional, a clergy member, or a crisis hotline.

Community Health Network has some tips for helping you manage stress during this time.

Indianapolis area Crisis and Suicide Intervention Hotline: Call (317) 251-7575 or Text CSIS to 839863

Mood Kit

MoodKit uses the foundation of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and provides users with over 200 different mood improvement activities. Developed by two clinical psychologists, MoodKit helps you learn how to change how you think, and develop self-awareness and healthy attitudes. The journal feature is a great way to practice self-care by reflecting on the day, noting any distressing thoughts, and documenting how you overcame them.

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Mind Shift

Mind Shift is one of the best mental health apps designed specifically for teens and young adults with anxiety. Rather than trying to avoid anxious feelings, Mind Shift stresses the importance of changing how you think about anxiety. Think of this app as the cheerleader in your pocket, encouraging you to take charge of your life, ride out intense emotions, and face challenging situations.

(Free; iOS and Android)

Self-Help for Anxiety Management (SAM)

SAM might be perfect for you if youre interested in self-help, but meditation isnt your thing. Users are prompted to build their own 24-hour anxiety toolkit that allows you to track anxious thoughts and behavior over time, and learn 25 different self-help techniques. You can also use SAMs Social Cloud feature to confidentially connect with other users in an online community for additional support.

(Free; iOS and Android)

Happify

Need a happy fix? With its psychologist-approved mood-training program, the Happify app is your fast-track to a good mood. Try various engaging games, activity suggestions, gratitude prompts and more to train your brain as if it were a muscle, to overcome negative thoughts. The best part? Its free!

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MoodTools

MoodTools aims to support people with clinical depression by aiding the path to recovery. Discover helpful videos that can improve your mood and behavior, log and analyze your thoughts using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) principles, develop a suicide safety plan and more with this free app.

(Free; iOS and Android)

nOCD

nOCD was designed with the help of OCD specialists and patients to incorporate two treatments: mindfulness and Exposure Response Prevention Treatment. You can receive immediate, clinically-supported guidance when an OCD episode strikes, take weekly tests to assess the severity of your OCD, and have motivational support along the way. One user calls nOCD a free therapist in your pocket!

(Free; iOS)

PTSD Coach

Created by the VAs National Center for Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), PTSD Coach offers everything from a self-assessment for PTSD, to opportunities to find support, positive self-talk and anger management. Whats great about this app is that you can customize tools based on your own individual needs and preferences, and integrate your own contacts, photos, and music.4

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Breathe2Relax

Sometimes you just need to breathe and remind yourself you are okay. Breathe2Relax is made for just that. Created by the National Center for Telehealth and Technology, this app is a portable stress management tool that teaches users a skill called diaphragmatic breathing. Breathe2Relax works by decreasing the bodys fight-or-flight stress response, making it a great option for people suffering from PTSD.

(Free; iOS and Android)

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Saudis take on self-isolation through the internet – Arabnews

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JEDDAH: As Saudis go head-to-head with the coronavirus, taking precautionary measures through self-isolation, the internet has become an essential tool for them, whether for business purposes, school or leisure.

The Saudi government has urged the public to stay in their homes to reduce the possibility of further virus outbreak.

Schools and universities have shifted to online classes to protect staff and students, while many companies have began allowing their staff to work remotely.

English instructor at a university in Jeddah, Amani Al-Ghoraibi, told Arab News that the staff faced some trouble initially.

Weak internet connection, loss of sound, inability to log in, the system crashing, initial difficulty using the program for both students and instructors (were among the issues), but the university really did a great job solving these issues, she said. The Blackboard page became easily accessible by hyperlinking it to the universitys main page, said Al-Ghoraibi, adding that customer services became available for immediate assistance, and the university then updated the Blackboard system entirely.

Theyre currently conducting meetings and workshops online and joined by over 250 university instructors, heads of departments, admins, and so on, to help with the issue of assessing the students fairly through online exams, assignments, quizzes and other modes of assessments, she said.

Students have been surprisingly responsive and active in class, she added, due to the programs and applications availability on smartphones, iPads, laptops and desktop computers.

The online classes are also saved and recorded on Blackboard itself, so students always have the option to go back and review the class whenever they want to, Al-Ghoraibi said.

Nora Al-Rifai, a head of training programs at a company from Jeddah, had planned to use the self-isolation period to use less technology and read more, but the internet has proved inescapable. Ive been playing video games and browsing Netflix, doing a bit of online shopping to catch up on things I never bothered to purchase, she told Arab News.

Although there is seemingly more demand on internet services, Al-Rifai has not experienced any lag in the connection.

Working from home isnt as stressful either, as most training programs weve had scheduled have been postponed until further notice. I think its quite beneficial to do so with the current crisis, but we can also learn more about how to work under unprecedented circumstances and emergencies, she said.

Nineteen-year-old Dina Ajjaj from Jeddah has been attending virtual classes for almost two weeks as a university freshman. She found the concept of distance learning difficult. Im kind of suffering to keep up with my classes as the servers cant handle the massive number of users, she told Arab News.

Ajjaj did not find it easy to concentrate on the lessons, with her focus straying due to worries of losing internet connection. On a more positive note, she said she was using the time to increase her self-awareness. Im trying out some hobbies, from reading books to meditation.

Self-quarantine really puts a strain on ones mental and psychological state, Ajjaj said. She thinks it is the right decision healthwise to prevent the spread of the virus, but she cannot wait to go back to class, meet new people and spend time in the sun.

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10 Things You Did Not Know About The Death Tarot Card | TheTalko – TheTalko

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Although ist eerie and on of the most feared cards in a tarot deck, the Death Tarot card is much more. Here are some things to know.

The Death tarot card in the Major Arcana is one of the most feared cards in the deck. However, rarely does this card represent physical death. This card actually is associated with transformations, transitions, and endings of anything old so it can make room for the new. This is why astrologically this card is associated with the water sign, Scorpio, which is ruled by transformative and powerful Pluto.

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This means if anyone goes for a tarot reading and The Death tarot card comes up in a spread, it does not mean that the seeker will die. Listed below are 10 things that many people are not aware of that are associated with The Death tarot card.

When The Death tarot card is associated with giving birth, that seems as if it should not belong in the same sentence. However, anytime someone becomes a parent, especially for the first time, that really represents the death of their old selves as they cannot go back to who they were before they became parents.

This is why it is a major shock to new parents after bringing the baby home from the hospital. Their care-free lives were given the kiss of death as now they have a new being they are completely responsible for, and their identities have changed forever as well.

Whenever someone is having a tarot reading about their relationship, and The Death card comes up, that is not a good sign. That most definitely means that the relationship is on its way out. Sometimes the seeker who is asking the reader to give them insight on their relationship knows this deep down, which is why they are wanting the reading to get confirmation.

However, sometimes this news comes as a total shock. What is the reason for the breakup? That depends on the surrounding cards. If The Four Of Cups is in the spread, then it is an indication of boredom. If The Seven Of Swords is in there, then this is a sign of a cheating partner.

The Death card shows up when there is no longer any interest in a hobby or something else that once excited the individual. And the fact of the matter is that interests and hobbies do change as people grow and evolve. The type of interests that someone had in childhood or as teens would no longer serve a purpose in adulthood, however, there are always exceptions. When it comes to a life-long passion, that usually is not the case.

However, when it comes to short-lived hobbies, The Death card can appear at any time which means the interest will die and something new and exciting will replace it.

Whenever a change of bad habits in the picture, The Death card is a great card to show up. This means that either the smoking will come to an end, the booze will be cut out or cut down significantly, the sedentary lifestyle will become active, or sugar will be replaced with organic food.

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Many times health scares can cause people to change habits which means they are given that wakeup call. However, not always. Sometimes people don't feel great or they feel stuck and know exactly why. It is because of the poor habits that they need to come to an end.

One thing about The Death card that many people who are not overly familiar with the tarot is that it can represent an increase in self-awareness. This means they have been enlightened and awakened by something, which is a sign that they are evolving on a spiritual level.

They may begin to take up spiritual practices or may become religious, whichever works for them. Sometimes the increased self-awareness can be the result of learning the hard way from a grave mistake, or it can be the result of a life-changing trip they took that taught them something about themselves that they did not know previously.

Perhaps moving is something that someone has been planning to do all along, however, if that individual had gotten a tarot reading and The Death card came up, then it is one that would be life-changing. By the way, a life-changing move does not even have to mean that the move is across the country, or to a different country, or overseas. It can still be a move to another home in another area of the same town.

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It all boils down to what kind of events will follow the move that can be considered life-changing. That is why The Death card would come up in a reading that is relevant to a move.

If someone who was thinking about changing careers went to a tarot readerto receive a reading, and The Death card came up, that is a sure sign that the change will happen. Not only will it be a change but it will involve complete transition and transformation. This means that the seeker will literally be saying goodbye to the old career that they had and they will be going into something brand new which may or may not require extra schooling.

Therefore, this is not keeping the same job or career-role and moving to a different company. It is a situation that involves going from being a journalist to a chef, for example.

The Death tarot card is not one that anyone wants to see come up in a spread or as a single-card pull if they are inquiring about their financial situation. This card will most definitely indicate a financial loss, and it can be due to many reasons. Perhaps taking out debt is one reason which is something that the seeker would be aware of, especially if they are making a big purchase such as a house or a car.

Or, it may mean that unexpected large expenses will come up which could involve medical or home repair. It could also mean that the investments could take a beating in a market that is doing badly.

The Dark Night Of The Soul is a spiritual crisis, which means it is a very dark time in someone's life. This is a period in life where someone would feel empty and disconnected spiritually, and therefore, they would be very depressed, apathetic, and numb. Some people who experience it may actually do more exploring on a spiritual level in order to figure life out, or others may become lost into additions to numb themselves.

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However, when The Death card comes up in someone's reading regarding this situation, this is good news. It means this confusing and challenging time will come to an end, and the light will be seen again.

Whenever The Death tarot card comes up in a reading regardless of what situation is being looked into, it is a message to embrace a transition or change that is meant to happen. Sometimes these changes will be welcomed with open arms such as a new baby on the way.

Other times they will not be welcome such as getting the news about being forced to move due to the house needing to be knocked down as the result of the construction of a freeway. Either way, these types of forever changes are happening and cannot be resisted.

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Miriam Slozberg is a mom, an astrologer, tarot reader, author, a freelance writer who has a warped sense of humor in order to roll with the punches of life. She has many ghostwriting clients of various niches and also writes for BabyGaga, as well as AskAstrology.

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The Woke Decadence on Display at the Feminist Offices of The Wing – Commentary Magazine

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Amid all the talk of quarantine and social distancing and turning ones home into a virus-free safe space, its a welcome distraction to read this piece by Amanda Hess in the New York Times Magazine about The Wing, the swanky, all-female club (or pop-feminist Biodome, as Hess labels it). It was supposed to function as a safe space, too, but turned out to be something far less appealing.

Founded by Audrey Gelman in 2016, The Wing has been marketed as a female-only third space for the wealthy (membership costs $3,000 per year) and well-connected (Womens March co-founder and shameless anti-Semite Linda Sarsour is a member). Initially launched in New York, it now has locations in cities like Washington D.C., London, Hollywood, Chicago, and San Francisco, among others.

But The Wing is more than just a club. As Gelman told Fast Company, We want our mission to not only be expressed through our brand but through our internal policies. The brand is unabashedly feminist, progressive, and political. The Wing has hosted appearances by Hillary Clinton, and Gelman threw a lavish fundraiser for Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, who repaid her with a blurb for the companys website: The Wing isnt just a functional space, its a real symbol of whats opening in our country. [Its] one of the most potent forces that weve seen emerge in politics this year.

But inclusivity extends only so far; this is not a space that welcomes fans of Margaret Thatcher or Nikki Haley, for example. The San Francisco chapter of The Wing named a conference room in honor of Christine Blasey Ford after her testimony during the Brett Kavanaugh Supreme Court confirmation hearings. Nor does it welcome men, a fact that prompted a lawsuit and an investigation by the New York City Commission on Human Rights.

Any argument for a female-only space inevitably prompts comparison to Virginia Woolfs A Room of Ones Own. This holds true for The Wing, but not because of the clubs embrace of Woolfs proto-feminist messaging. As Hess argues, it is for its unabashedly elite demand for comfort and ease: Luxury and feminism have long been intertwined, Hess notes. Virginia Woolfs 1929 book A Room of Ones Own a Wing philosophical touchstone didnt argue for just any old room. Woolf wanted women to have access to deep armchairs, pleasant carpets and opulently catered luncheons presented by servants on silver trays, to bask in the urbanity, the geniality, the dignity which are the offspring of luxury and privacy and space. Dignity and equality might be hard-earned, Wing members know, but they should bring with them their own luxurious rewards for the deserving.

Alas, the deserving are an elite group, which is why The Wing embraces partnerships that allow it to promote itself and expensive products from companies eager to bask in the glow of The Wings particular brand of corporate feminism: Wing members effectively pay to advertise products to other women in front of the clubs feminine backdrops, and along the way, burnish their own brand power too, Hess writes.

But how to market Instagram perfection when you still need toilets scrubbed and plush couches lint-rolled for your exclusive members? According to many of The Wings employees who spoke to Hess, by using them as advertisements for a corporate image that is belied by those employees reality.

To be sure, the people who seem to want to work at The Wing arent exactly wannabe engineers or future titans of industry. One woman is described by Hess as a first-generation Liberian-American with a striking, pasteled online presence who was cultivating their own business as a professional witch incorporating Tarot and astrology. She ended up posing for pictures wearing T-shirts with slogans like EXTREME SELF-CARE on the Wings website.

Other employees described their work experience as a low-paid, emotionally exhausting, passive-aggressive H.R. nightmare. Until recently, Wing values posted in the spaces reminded employees that a requirement of the job was to act in a utopian manner, Hess notes. One employee simply told her, I was treated like a human kitty-litter box.

When she was asked about her disgruntled workers and the often-punitive corporate strategies for dealing with them, however, Gelman blamed society. Despite their intention to build a womens utopia, she acknowledged, the ills of society at large had seeped in, Hess reports. Gelman said, These are familiar themes for us.

The themes might be familiar to Gelman, but her vices are well-known to observers of self-styled influencers and thought leaders. Like Gwyneth Paltrow, whose ego-driven efforts at wellness have given the world dodgy medical advice and vagina-scented candles; or Elizabeth Holmes, who grifted her way through Silicon Valley while being hailed as the female Steve Jobs, Gelmans savvy P.R. strategy has created the image of a successful yet empathetic female entrepreneur. But Gelmans privileged life has failed to offer her the one thing she most needs: self-awareness.

The Wing is less an expression of confused feminist values than it is of todays impossible, Instagram-perfect standard for female success. The Wing is the high-end version of this compulsion; the low-rent (though more lucrative) version is the Kardashian-Jenner empire, with its cheap cosmetics and unhealthy waist-trainers and reality television dramaturgy. At least the Kardashians dont pretend to be empowering the women theyre marketing to or drape themselves in feminist glory. Theyre just getting rich by convincing teenage girls that they should all look like the female android in Ex Machina.

By contrast, the ladies of The Wing claim to want to have a space where they can escape the male gaze and promote feminist values. Yet they do so while catering to the demands of a platform (Instagram) that emphasize image over substance and hashtag activism over real political organizing. What Wing members and its founder, Gelman, cant escape is some much-deserved scrutiny of their elitism and hypocrisy. In our current moment of public crisis, The Wings self-indulgent posturing doesnt look like female empowerment; it looks decadent and appalling.

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Scorpio Horoscope March 2020 Love and Career Predictions – Allure

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Read what your sign's 2020 horoscope predictions have in store for you or check out the Scorpio personality profile.

Welcome to March, Scorpio. At the end of February, you looked for hobbies or activities to keep your mind creative and happy. Mercury is retrograde, so friends and lovers may be slower to respond and miscommunication abounds. Remember not to take everything personally. Sometimes someone isn't writing back just because they're busy at work. When Mercury retrograde enters intellectual Aquarius on Wednesday, March 4, your paranoia drops ever so slightly. Enjoy it and remember the power of logic, you emotional water sign you.

Venus, the planet of love, beauty, and abundance enters luxurious Taurus on Thursday, March 5. Scorpios can be chronically stressed out, so use this period to lean into vanity and treat yourself. Take a long bath, get your hair done, or buy a new outfit. While some astrologers say that you shouldn't make any drastic changes to your appearance during Mercury retrograde, that applies more to drastic haircuts or plastic surgery than self-care. You need all of the self-care.

Beware of obsessing over problems that don't exist.

Beware of paranoid thinking during the full moon in detail-oriented Virgo on Monday, March 9. Full moons are powerful times but because the moon rules our intuition and subconscious it can be a lot for an intense water sign like you. Virgo's analyzation powers make the sign organized and efficient, but this energy can also cause you to overanalyze. Beware of obsessing over problems that don't exist. Thankfully, the very next day on Tuesday, March 10, Mercury retrograde ends. Start or maintain a journaling practice to work through any anxious thought patterns.

On Monday, March 16, messenger Mercury enters fellow dreamy water sign Pisces. This transit adds depths and emotions to both sides of your conversations. Lovers, crushes, and friends are able to match your intensity and go deep. Spend a night in for making love and sharing secrets. You may be ready to trade in lovemaking for whips and chains when fiery Aries season begins on Friday, March 20. Like you, Aries is ruled by passionate Mars. Ask for what you want in bed. Ask for what you want professionally. You'll feel emboldened, and others respond.

You find yourself feeling reflective during the new moon in Aries on Tuesday, March 24. What relationship problems are you currently having, and which sources of stress stem from old unresolved trauma? New moons mean new beginnings, and this one in assertive Aries asks you to drop bad habits that are holding you back. However, this requires self-awareness on your part. Are you up to the challenge?

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Yes, yes it's definitely slightly ridiculous to proclaim that spring has sprung and that the days are getting longer and that all those other twee seasonal platitudes are suddenly true when it's still fucking freezing out. I get it. A little bit of self-awareness goes a long way. That being said, there's a shit ton of new product out there to take stock of and my editor's demanding (read: gently suggesting, in literally the most sensitive way imaginable) that I take a gander at what's going on in the weird, wonderful world of menswear and break it down into digestible chunks of pure content for you lovely folks. Everybody's got to eat, G. Don't be a dick.

On that note: Spring has sprung! The days are getting longer! Layering options are slightly more limited, but, contrary to popular belief, now's the time to really start dressing. Let's do this thing.

Flared Mid Rise Trousers

$77.00

The '70s are having a serious moment.The decade has been a consistent source of inspiration for designers of all stripes, andthe best way to dip your toes in the water without going full period-era cosplay is to incorporate subtle nods to the prevailing styles of the time into your everyday outfits. In this particular instance, that meansrocking pants with atinybit of flare the exact same way you would any other pair in your regular rotation.

Flare Jeans

On the higher-end, the '70s have proven extremely extremely effective inspiration forHedi Slimane's men's collections at Celine. And, perhaps even more importantdepending on your perspectivethe decadehas been cropping up as a clear influence on the looks of street style stars around the world this fashion month.

Polar Button Up Shirt in Leopard Print

$68.40

These aren't, as they say, your dad's button-downs (unless your old man happens to have a collection of rad work shirts he's been stockpiling on the sly).Camp collars abound.There's a reason labels like Gitman Brothers chose to make the humble button-down their signature product: it can be one of the best blank canvases on which to carefully paint the aesthetic of an entire brand (and one of the easiest pieces to effortlessly build an outfit around).

Long-Sleeve Shirt in Navy

$290.00

For years, the pendulum of men's fashion swung so sharply towards the side of sweatpants and sneakers that it was bound to dangle its way back in the opposite direction at some point. For proof, look no further than the cadre of cool upstarts and established labels alike that are making, say,the button-down shirt, that trusty stalwart of the working man's wardrobe, feel fresh again.

Black Sister Blazer

$470.00

What does a post-streetwear world look like? Engaging in hypotheticals is a perennial parlor game favorite among fashion fans, but throughout the most recent spate of men's showsdesigners actually seemed to be considering the answer. Not a whole lot different than the pre-streetwear world, it turns out.Streetwear, to the extent that the all-encompassing term ever meant anything substantial, will always be a massive influence on modern menswear. It ain't going anywhere. For the most part, when critics say suiting issuddenly"here to stay",they mean that today, stylish guys are wearing tailored garments the same way they would their most casual cops. They're not precious about it, in part because the best of today's tailoring is cut with an eye towards appealing to dudes used to wearing oversized designer sweatsuits.

Kasuri Wool Glen Check Double Breasted Dud Jacket

$569.00

Invest in some tailoring with that same spirit anddon't sweat the rest. The suit isn't back. Streetwear isn't dead. Capital "F" fashion is hardly ever that clear-cut, but getting dressed has never been more straightforward.

Wallace & Barnes Striped Boiled Merino Wool Cardigan

$150.00

I'm a huge proponent of Tyler, the Creator'spersonal style, and right now, there's not a single person who's wearing sweaters as well, or as frequently, as the guy. Tyler's been serving up serious spring inspiration lately, and the very best thing you can do this season is straight up copy his look wholesale.

Leopard-Jacquard Mohair-Blend Sweater

$455.00

Cardigans, crewnecks, v-necks, vests. Patterns, prints, solids, stripes.Say yes to the sweater!It's like a TLC show that ends each episode after about half a minute of deliberation because guess what, baby?! I'm taking 'em all.

1461 Vintage Abandon Shoe

$189.00

Let's face facts, folks: we're rapidly moving towards what experts are referring to as a "post-sneaker society". The end is near! Console the sneakerheads. Comfort the streetwear enthusiasts. Let's take it slow this time around. If I catch any of you schmucks busting out a pair of goodyear-welted double monkstraps like it's fucking 2010 I'm going to lose my shit over here.

Buckle Loafer

$569.00

To ease your transition into the dystopian reality that is willingly opting to wear hard-bottom shoes in 2020, start with a pair of loafers (like the ones Alyx makes) and work your way up to a slightly more substantial "dress" shoe. (Are all non-sneakers dress shoes now? Is time a flat circle? Is contemporary fashion a complete circle-jerk? I don't fucking know, man. At least you're way less likely to miss out on copping, like, the latest Church's drop, I guess?)

Square Park Hoodie

$175.00

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Terry Ribbed Shoulder Rugby Top

$245.00

A slightly updated take on prep is indeed here.I couldn't have seen this coming, and I deeply apologize for any lack offoresighton my part.Wewillget through this, and wewilldo it together. Thank you all so much once again for your continued support, and looking forward to getting off many, many fits with you for years to come.

Sin Faux-Leather Trousers

$175.00

Shit, man. I mean, come on. What's more cool than a pair of leather pants? Yes, these are for sure abitof an aggressive flex, but they're not as bonkers as you might think at first glance. The leather pants I'm pining after today aren't cut rockstar skinny like their counterparts from the early 2010s. Instead, they're mostly slim-straight and come somewhat cropped right off the rip. (Plus, if you're worried about the animals or your wallet, this pair is affordableand faux.)

Leather Pants

If you're still on the fence, think about leather pants as a slightly modified take on waxed denim and then proceed with confidence.

Deco Diamond Wool Tie

$77.75

If you're wearing a tie in 2020 I salute you. You, sir, are a style maverick (or an extremely powerful corporate executive who could crush the entirety of my puny existence with a mere snap of your meaty fingers). Typically, I'd recommend sticking with a slightly more conservative option when it comes to tying one on, but it's 2020, and we ain't typical. In most work environments, seeing a tie out in the wild is an extremely rare sighting, and today's ties fully play up their endangered species status by embracing brash patterns and bold geometric shapes like never before.

Harlequin Print Habotai Silk Tie

$185.00

Push beyond theparametersof what might conventionally be considered "poor taste", you pioneering neckwear adventurer.Let your freak flag fly in literally the least transgressive way possible.

Ronson Stripe Polo

$45.00

It's a long-established fact that grizzled old men with no fucks left to give tend to be some of the swaggiest guys around (albeit inadvertently), and over the last few seasons fashion has really caught on. Which means the same knit polo shirt your dear old Grandpa rocked consistently for the better half of his life is starting to look pretty, pretty good right about now.

Supreme Vertical Stripe Knit L/S Polo Black

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Luckily, you don't have to raid his closet for your own (although you should definitely give him a call, you selfish SOB). Supreme happens to make some of the best versions of the style each season.

Ignored Prayers Reversible T-Shirt

$50.00

Don't get it twisted: I'm still very much here for rocking the most obscure band tee you can find, but why not try your hand atsignaling an allegiance to other equally specific cultural institutions or influential figures (even fictitious ones). The more personal the reference the better.

Summer Tour Long Sleeve

$50.00

Pro top: shopping vintage is likely your best bet here, but in a pinch Dover Street Market's dedicated T-shirt space consistently stocks a rotating selection of super funky teesfrom a who's who of emerging labels, many of them heavily influenced by the throwback appeal of the most covetable vintage finds.

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STATEN ISLAND, N.Y. More than 200 mentors, mentees, business women of all ages and students gathered to share invaluable knowledge and experiences, answer questions, network, exchange ideas and offer guidance and assistance in any way they knew how at Staten Islands inaugural Mentoring Monday event.

Staged Monday by the Advance/SILive.com at The Vanderbilt, the event was one of many happening across the country, with nearly 10,000 women participating nationwide.

The mornings theme: Women accomplish amazing feats when they support each other, collaborate and celebrate one anothers accomplishments and successes.

Read on and well provide the proof!

Mentor Doreen Cugno, co-founder of the St. George Theatre, notes: Im here because I want to ask young women about their dream and get them to talk to me a little about their lives and their future aspirations. She added: And dont be afraid of changing your mind about your career path.

Mentor Luanne Sorrentino, Cugnos sister and co-founder the St. George Theatre, explained: Today were hoping to motivate, inspire and help people achieve their goals and find their dream job and how to make that happen."

Mentor Marylee Montalvo, owner of MLM Public Relations explained: The paths of young women may or may not be linear. Your career can be anything you want it to be. Internships can be valuable, but volunteerism is also a big part of a career.

Mentor Betsy Dubovsky, executive director of the Staten Island Foundation said: Its about making your parking space. I think today is a great idea especially since its focused on women, said she before going on to explain: Personally, I think we have to answer the question, What is it we have to give? Its about peoples self-awareness. Some people dont think enough about their gifts and what they figure out about themselves and what they have to contribute. It starts with your personal self, possessing awareness and your own goals.

Jill Holtermann Bowers, of Holtermanns Bakery fame the German-style bakery founded in 1878 in Great Kills attended to interact with other business owners, to observe and to offer her expertise. And so impressed was Holtermann, shes thinking of hosting the same type of Womens Day event for her Girl Scout troop. FYI: In April, the street across from the bakery will be renamed Holtermanns Way.

Mentor Katia Gordon, director, Staten Island Regional and Community Affairs, Consolidated Edison stated: Todays event helps our future generation of leaders prepare for the outstanding contributions they will make for our wonderful community. I am so proud to be part of this endeavor.

Linda Dianto, a mentor and an Advance Woman of Achievement in the Class of 2017, who is founder and executive director of the National Lighthouse Museum, called the event a wonderful day and an opportunity to share knowledge with female members of the community and a win-win for everyone.

Jaclyn Tacoronte, a mentor and managing partner of JMT Media, was simply ecstatic to be on board. The mom of a new bouncing baby girl named Julie Violet Ana, born to Jaclyn and husband Joseph Tacoronte, the dad who doubled as babysitter during Mondays event, Jaclyn is elated to have family maternity leave right now to spend time with her new daughter. And its thanks to people like State Senator Diane Savino, Jaclyn said.

Mentor Kamillah M. Hanks, chief executive officer of the Historic Tappen Park Community Partnership and CEO of the Youth Build Staten Island Program in Stapleton, was accompanied by nursing student, Shalaiyah Camacho and accounting major, Jazmarie Dowd, who are enrolled in programs at the College of Staten Island. The students, who were intrigued by the informative morning and friendly ambiance, told us they will graduate come March 26.

Mentor Teresa Rampulla, who also served as a guest speaker, is owner of SheMediaNY in Dongan Hills because as she stated: She can do anything. She told us her business is currently working with the Department of Health to help combat discrimination. And at todays event, Im here as a womens business owner. I started with my mom, Amy Campbell, when I was 13 years-old at the Staten Island Chamber of Commerce, where I worked every summer. My mom always said If theres a problem, you can figure out the answer. People sometimes pass the buck. But I always try to find out the answers. And if you do it yourself, youll find the remedy. Part of the excitement is in the journey.

Mentee Ishrat Quereshi told us she retired from banking after working at JP Morgan Chase for 24 years. Im really a fashion designer, said she, before pointing out, Im looking to go into the real estate business and want to attend the College of Staten Island to take a writing class so that I can write my memoirs in my retirement.

Mentee Lynn Persing of Conhagen Industries, an oil pump, compressor and turbine repair service with facilities in Texas, California and Louisiana a firm that was once located on Staten Island commented: Im a consultant with the business and I attend meetings out of state. In speaking of the family-owned business she revealed her brothers, sisters and nephews, third generation in fact, are now running the business. Persing was recently honored by Eger Lutheran Home & Services at their annual Helping Hearts Luncheon at The Vanderbilt just several weeks ago.

Andrea Lewis, of Solace4Me, a self-care caregivers service, conversed about health and wellness. Lewis, who is certified in the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) International, an alternative treatment for physical pain and emotional distress noted: I work with anyone who is stressed or worried. Many illnesses have underlying emotional and stress levels. Our body has energy systems and what we tap on is the meridian energy.

Mia Eremita and Lauren Killen, both 17 and seniors at St. Joseph by-the-Sea High School and Students of Excellence were nominated to attend the mentoring event, along with eight other female students. We thought we would benefit from it, said Mia, who aspires to have a career in TV broadcasting and is looking at Marymount Manhattan College. Her dad is Eric Eremita, no-nonsense construction manager on HGTVs Love it or List It."

Killen, whos interested in accounting, reveals she wants to earn a masters of business administration degree and become a certified public accountant. And at this writing, she has a few colleges in mind, but hasnt made her choice as of yet.

Mentor Gina Gutman, senior vice-president of the Staten Island Economic Development Corporation declared: We have a winners group here today. And one of the things I love about this event is that its women helping women and really an opportunity to lift each other up starting with the youngest women in our community, she said. In fact, I spoke to a girl in the sixth grade, as well as a doctor. Here, you can share your expertise with every age range in the community and you dont have many opportunities to do that. Im a journalist major, and I used that in my career, although I didnt become a journalist."

Mentor Lisa Giovinazzo, a lawyer/partner in the firm of Kuharski, Levitz & Giovinazzo, said: I think it was a great event, especially for women. Its filled with people, career benefits and a terrific way to reconnect. And its a great way to gain experience especially for people who may be out of work.

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Our statement of purpose, "to create a culture of accountability that achieves the best academic and developmental outcomes for each student," provides clarity and focus for education in the New-Albany Plain Local Schools daily.

We have and will continue to be accountable for ensuring our students' needs, both academic and social-emotional, remain at the forefront of our continuous improvement.

Our talented faculty and staff members and administrators work daily to create and facilitate the academic-learning environments and culture that produces the educational outcomes our incredible students, families and community deserve. Continuous improvement requires an honest assessment of our ability to meet the educational needs of all students preparing for college, careers and life.

Being ready for college means that a high school graduate has the knowledge and skills necessary to qualify for and succeed in entry-level, credit-bearing college courses without the need for remedial coursework.

Ohio's dual-enrollment program, College Credit Plus, provides students in grades 7 to 12 the opportunity to earn college and high school credits at the same time by taking courses from Ohio colleges or universities. At New Albany High School, we provide on-site college courses in partnership with Columbus State Community College, Kenyon College and Wright State University.

Additionally, our students have access to Advanced Placement courses that may earn college credit, honors-level courses and other high school curricula aligned to rigorous standards. Although students are challenged to meet high expectations for learning, our teaching faculty is responsible to help every student demonstrate growth.

Being career-ready means that a high school graduate is equipped with the knowledge and skills deemed essential for success or preparation for the workforce.

Career-readiness competencies include critical thinking, problem solving, sound reasoning, decision making, communication and collaboration skills.

Although such workforce competencies are integrated into our partnership with the Eastland-Fairfield Career & Technical Schools, such skills also are integrated into the curricula of our entire learning campus to contribute to our ability to enable our students to be life-ready.

Being life-ready means students leave high school with the grit and perseverance to tackle and achieve their goals by demonstrating personal actualization of self-awareness, self-management, social-awareness, responsible decision making and relationship skills, all competencies and attributes that are expected for higher education, the workforce or in service to our country.

Students who are life-ready possess the growth mindset that empowers them to approach their future with confidence, to dream and to achieve as a result of the high-quality education received in our school district.

Our schools also provide social and emotional support and experiences to equip our students with life skills to succeed in the present and in the future.

Our school culture and the disciplines of the R Factor challenge our students to recognize they don't control events or outcomes, but based upon the discipline of their response, an outcome is earned. We are working daily to instill the behaviors necessary for students to own their responses to influence and achieve the outcomes desired.

Our purpose demands for us to own our responses as a school district to continue to produce outcomes that meet the needs of each student.

As we look toward our future, we will sustain the excellent teaching and learning occurring, improve where data identify opportunities, continue to implement age-appropriate social-emotional programs and supports, and challenge the status quo to recognize that all of our students do not do "school" the same way.

In the coming months, we look forward to sharing with you the exciting "pathways" and "partnerships" that we are expanding for our students to empower them to be college-, career- and life-ready, regardless of their choice to enroll, enlist or become employed upon graduation.

Michael Sawyers is superintendent of New Albany-Plain Local Schools.

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