How to Meditate with Anxiety – Mindful

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Anxiety is our bodys way of saying, Hey, Im experiencing too much stress all at once. This happens to the best of us. But, when that feeling of being always on alert becomes background noise that doesnt go away, thats when its time to seek help. Mindfulness and meditation for anxiety is a growing field that can help you navigate the many ways that anxiety can disorder your life. This guide is not meant to serve as a diagnosing tool or a treatment pathIts simply a collection of research and some practices you can turn to as you begin to right your ship.

Mindfulness is not a panacea. Its not the right choice for everyone. But, according to some research, when you can create a little space between yourself and what youre experiencing, your anxiety can soften. But, if you get too used to that low rumble of stress always being there, it can gradually grow, creating a stress habit that is detrimental to your health and well-being. Consequently, when we get caught up in patterns of reactivity, we create more distress in our lives. This is why its so important to discern clearly the difference between reacting with unawareness and responding with mindfulness.

In essence, practicing mindfulness is a process of learning to trust and stay with feelings of discomfort rather than trying to escape from or analyze them, says Bob Stahl, Ph.D., Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) teacher, founder of multiple MBSR programs, and co-author of multiple books on MBSR. This often leads to a remarkable shift; time and again your feelings will show you everything you need to know about themand something you need to know for your own well-being.

Mindfulness is the basic human ability to be fully present, aware of where we are and what were doing, and not overly reactive or overwhelmed by whats going on around us.

Leading expert Jon Kabat-Zinn describes it as awarenessthat arises through paying attention, on purpose, in the present moment, non-judgementally, adding: in the service of self-understanding and wisdom.

When you become aware of the present moment, you gain access to resources you may not have realized were with you all alongA stillness at your core. An awareness of what you need and dont need in your life thats with you all the time. You may not be able to change your situation through mindfulness, but you can change your response to your situation.

When you become aware of the present moment, you gain access to resources you may not have realized were with you all alongA stillness at your core.

MBSR (Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction), founded by Jon Kabat-Zinn, is a specific kind of mindfulness practice that addresses the stresses of everyday life and has been shown to improve mental and physical health. The 8-week program incorporates mindfulness practices that allow you to bring kind awareness and acknowledgment to any stressed or anxious feelings in your body and mind and simply allow them to be.

In 1992, Zindel Segal, John Teasdale, and Mark Williams collaborated to create an eight-week program modeled on Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR). Jon Kabat-Zinnwho developed MBSRhad some initial misgivings about the program, fearing the curriculum might insufficiently emphasize how important it is for instructors to have a deep personal relationship with mindfulness practice. Once he got to know the founders better, he became a champion for the program. In 2002, the three published Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy for Depression: A New Approach to Preventing Relapse, now a landmark book.

MBCTs credibility rests firmly on ongoing research. Two randomized clinical trials (published in 2000 and 2008 in The Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology) laid the foundation, indicating MBCT reduces rates of depression relapse by 50% among patients who suffer from recurrent depression. Recent findings published in The Lancet in 2015 revealed that combining a tapering off of medication with MBCT is as effective as an ongoing maintenance dosage of medication. Further studies have found that MBCT is a potentially effective intervention for mood and anxiety disorders.

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A skills-based approach, MBCT asks patients to inquire into, familiarize themselves with, and redirect the thought processes that are getting them into trouble (cognitive distortions, or what some people call negative self-talk, or stinkin thinkin). It takes close attention and stick-to-itiveness to shift these ingrained thought processes. MBCT isnt about changing or fixing the content of our challenging thoughts, its about becoming more intimately and consistently aware of these thoughts and patterns. The awareness itself reduces the grip of persistent and pernicious thought loops and storylines.

Mindfulness isnt about changing or fixing the content of our challenging thoughts, its about becoming more intimately and consistently aware of these thoughts and patterns. The awareness itself reduces the grip of persistent and pernicious thought loops and storylines.

Like MBSR, MBCT is an eight-week program consisting of two-hour weekly classes with a mid-course day-long session. It combines guided meditations with group discussions, various kinds of inquiry and reflection, and take-home exercises. Repetition and reinforcement, coming back to the same places, again and again, are key to the program, says Zindel Segal, and hopefully people continue that into daily life beyond the initial MBCT program, in both good times and bad.

The Three-Minute Breathing Space is one of the most popular practices in the 8-week MBCT program. It allows you to shift your attention away from automatic, multitasking patterns of thought to help you get unstuck. It invites you to bring attention to your experience in a broader, more open manner that isnt involved in selecting, choosing, or evaluating, but simply becoming aware of your thoughts and feelings, your breath in various regions of the body, and finally, sensations throughout the entire body.

There are three steps to the practice:

We wanted to create a sort of choreography of awareness that emphasized shifting attention, checking in, and moving on, says Segal. Accordingly, each step of the Three-Minute Breathing Space is roughly one minute in length. Perhaps because of this flexibility and real-world focus, the Three-Minute Breathing Space is one of the most durable practices utilized by participants well after MBCT has ended, Zindel explains.

To explore exactly what is going on with your attention when you practice the 3MBS, please read Unpacking the Three-Minute Breathing Space.

By Zindel Segal

People often stumble over the concept of acceptance as an approach for dealing with difficult emotions and mind states. Inmindfulness-based cognitive therapy(MBCT) groups that Ive led, this predictably comes up around the fourth or fifth session as participants say How can I accept this pain? or I want to feel fewer of these difficult emotions, not more! These reactions reflect an underlying calculation that even though trying to avoid or push away negative thoughts and feelings can be exhausting, the strategy has worked in the past, so why risk using a different and unfamiliar strategy?

In these moments, rather than answer this question directly, I find it helpful to remind myself of three simple points:

1. Allowing negative emotions to exist in our livesfor the momentdoes not mean that weve chosen not to take action. The concept of acceptance, as introduced in MBCT, is intended to describe the possibility of developing a different relationship to experience, one that is characterized by allowing an experience and letting it be. Allowing difficult feelings to be in awareness means registering their presence before making a choice about how to respond to them. It takes a real commitment and involves a deliberate movement of attention. Importantly, allowing is not the same as being resigned or passive or helpless.

By accepting unpleasant experiences, we can shift our attention to opening up to them. Thus, I should be strong enough shifts to Ah, fear is here, or Judgment is present.

2. Denying that a negative mindset is taking place is more risky for your mental health. The opposite of allowing is actually quite risky. Being unwilling to experience negative thoughts, feelings, or sensations is oftenthe first link in a mental chain that can lead to automatic, habitual, and critical patterns of mind becoming re-established. You can see this when someone says Im stupid to think like this or I should be strong enough to cope with that. By contrast, shifting the basic stance toward experience, from one of not wanting to one of opening, allows this chain reaction of habitual responses to be altered at the first link. Thus, I should be strong enough shifts to Ah, fear is here or Judgment is present.

3. Acceptance helps you work through each unpleasant experience. The third is that the practices of MBCT offer concrete ways for cultivating a stance of allowing and letting be amid painful experiences. We often know intellectually that it might be helpful to be more loving, caring, and accepting toward ourselves and what we are feeling, but we have very little idea how to do it. These capacities are unlikely to be produced merely by an effort of will. Instead, they require working through the body with repeated practice over time to notice how things, like anxiety, may show up as tightness in the chest, or sadness as heaviness in the shoulders.

Bringing attention/awareness to the sensations that accompany difficult experiences offers the possibility of learning to relate differently to such experiences in each moment. In time, this practice of working through the body may allow people to realize, through their own experiential practice, that they can allow unpleasant experiences and still be okay.

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Give yourself about thirty minutes for this mindfulness practice from MBSR expert, Bob Stahl. You can do this practice in a seated position, standing, or even lying down. Choose a position in which you can be comfortable and alert.

Because this practice involves intentionally exploring the experience of anxiety, it can be challenging. Before you do this practice, please take a little time to consider whether youre feeling up to it, listening to your inner voice to determine whether it feels right for you at this time. Consider doing your first practice when you feel safe and curious and have the energy and time to explore your anxiety more deeply. If now is not the time, be sure to return to this practice later, when you feel willing to take it on. Bob Stahl, Ph.D.

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A great many people who suffer withpanic attacks experience feeling as though they are losing control and going crazy. Some people describe feeling a disconnect from reality that scares and confuses them. You may feel completely helpless, as though there is nothing you can do and no one can help you. You literally believe that a threat is present, likely, or imminent. Its a frightening experience not easily forgotten. In fact, the fear alone that it may happen again is enough to start the cycle of panic and insecurity. If youre feeling scared or insecure about a reoccurrence right now, you are not alone, and there is help.

By Bob Stahl

Theres no predicting when your next panic attack will occur. It might happen while youre out running errands, interacting with strangers at the market or post office. Being in public may feel like the worst-case scenario for a panic attack, but it is also your cue to listen to your mind and body.

Mindful inquiry will help you investigate what is driving your panicky emotions, in order for you to become free from them. Practice these skills the next time you feel panic beginning to rise:

Note: Before beginning this guided meditation, please consider whether this is the right time for you to do it. Do you feel reasonably safe and open? If not, do some mindful breathing and come back to it at another time.

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Sometimes it suffices simply to pause and take deep breaths, expanding the inbreath and slowing the outbreatha technique that helps during 2 a.m. flopsweats. Barbara Graham,noted essayist and author

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As is typical for mindfulness-based interventions, no overarching body governs MBCT, but a number of very qualified senior teachers have taken it on since the program was founded, and centers in Toronto, the UK, and San Diego offer professional training and certification.

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