Guiding Light: Others are a mirror – Free Press Journal
Posted: June 2, 2020 at 8:49 am
The Mother, Sri Aurobindo Ashram
This is a habit with us, not only in this particular case but in all cases. It is rather remarkable that when we have a weaknessfor example a ridiculous habit, a defect or an imperfectionsince it is more or less part of our nature, we consider it to be very natural, it does not shock us. But as soon as we see this same weakness, this same imperfection, this same ridiculous habit in someone else, it seems quite shocking to us and we say, What! Hes like that?without noticing that we ourselves are like that. And so to the weakness and imperfection we add the absurdity of not even noticing them.
There is a lesson to be drawn from this. When something in a person seems to you completely unacceptable or ridiculous What! He is like that, he behaves like that, he says things like that, he does things like thatyou should say to yourself, Well, well, but perhaps I do the same thing without being aware of it. I would do better to look into myself first before criticizing him, so as to make sure that I am not doing the very same thing in a slightly different way.
If you have the good sense and intelligence to do this each time you are shocked by another persons behaviour, you will realise that in life your relations with others are like a mirror which is presented to you so that you can see more easily and clearly the weaknesses you carry within you. In general and almost absolute way, anything that shocks you in other people is the very thing you carry in yourself in a more or less veiled, more or less hidden form, though perhaps in a slightly different guise which allows you to delude yourself. And what in yourself seems inoffensive enough, becomes monstrous as soon as you see it in others.
Try to experience this; it will greatly help you to change yourselves. At the same time, it will bring a sunny tolerance to your relationships with others, the goodwill which comes from understanding, and it will very often put an end to these completely useless quarrels.
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