I was very pleased to see Jim Konrads article regarding the problems that occur with youth sports. His are my sentiments exactly. Ive been involved in sports my entire life, as a player, coach and umpire. I feel everyone should just coach or umpire once to see the other side of things and then they may not be so inclined to criticize. Coaches also have to remember theyre coaching so the players can learn something about the game and have fun as well. Theyre not coaching a major league team.

All should take heed to Konrads comments and how his town handles these problems. I think it would be great if every local league followed suit. It would be very beneficial if all families registering their children for an activity receive a copy of the article. Hopefully, it will improve the bad feelings that transpire at games by the players, spectators, and unfortunately, some coaches.

Lets play ball.

WAYNE IRONS Moosup

Wayne Irons is a member of the Connecticut Softball Hall of Fame.

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Letter to the editor: Youth sports coaches are trying to teach

BELLEFONTE -- The first witness called to testify on behalf of Jerry Sandusky in his child sex abuse case is his former colleague on the Penn State football team and self-described close friend, Richard Anderson, who testified about the grueling schedule with long hours and little free time that college football coaches endure year-round.

But on cross-examination, Anderson said Sandusky spent a good deal of time at The Second Mile and working with young boys. It was common for him to include boys in football activities, and he saw them on occasion showering together, Anderson said.

Its something Anderson himself admits to, he said. At the YMCA, at Penn State, at other places. The first time I took a shower in high school was with coaches, it was part of my life, Anderson testified.

Yes, I do. Anderson answered.

Eleven year olds?

Yes.

Who you didnt know?

Yes. There are regularly young boys at the YMCA showering at the same time there are older people showering.

Do you hug them in the shower?

Anderson smiled. No.

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DENVER - Tyrone Beverly is a yoga expert. But he will be the first to tell you that yoga goes beyond fitness. He uses the practice to bring people together.

"We really want to promote health and wellness socially, as well as physically," said Beverly, who operates the organization I'm Unique which focuses on fostering healthy lifestyles in all communities.

That is why he is planning on a hopefully large and diverse group of people practicing yoga in a museum. They will gather for the Illustrated Union Yoga Tour on Saturday, June 30 from 9 to 11 a.m. at The Wildlife Experience in Parker.

The event is open to the public, and Beverly welcomes people of all fitness and ability levels.

"We just want to open it to a wide group of people," he said, adding that the class will welcome people ranging from those who have never practiced yoga to advanced levels. Prenatal and kids classes will also be included. The event is open to people ages 8 and up.

To learn more about the Illustrated Union Yoga Tour, call 720-448-3300 or 303-358-9455. More information is also available on the organization's website: http://www.imuniqueunited.com.

(KUSA-TV 2012 Multimedia Holdings Corporation)

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If you are a health-conscious person, getting your family to adopt the same values can sometimes seem like a losing battle. Motivating others in your household to become more active and make healthier meal choices may take perseverance, creativity, and being open to communication.

It can be tough on a relationship when one person is active and the one isnt. You may worry about their weight, overall health, mortality, and stress levels.

You cant make a person want to do something, and nagging never seems to get anybody anywhere. Even if a person succumbs to the nagging, the actions are often done begrudgingly and will never last. If this is you, you may feel like you are banging your head against the wall. So, whats the best approach?

Lead by example. Commit to your own exercise and healthy nutrition program. When others see how happy, energetic, and positive you are by taking care of yourself, they may begin wanting some of those same feelings.

Focus on how you feel. In a study published in Womens Health, midlife women who exercised because it made them feel good were more likely to stick with it than women who exercised for their weight or health. The belief that we are motivated by the scale or health statistics is false. Choosing healthy habits for the enjoyment or the intrinsic benefits of feeling great are far more motivating.

If you are trying to help your spouse change, ask them how they feel after participating in a sport or activity. Tie it to feeling good, improved productivity, or something else that matters to them. Helping someone else feel better can help them make the decision to become healthier for themselves, and not just for you.

Make it fun. Think of fun activities that you can do together as a couple. Rent a tandem bike, go hiking, take a walk after dinner, hit tennis balls to each other, or play basketball in the park. Try a cooking class together that focuses on healthier choices. Make it about spending quality time together and having fun, rather focusing on the exercise part of it.

Be supportive. If your spouse is trying at all, be encouraging! Your standards may not be the same as theirs. If they like to walk, but hate running, then encourage the walking pace. If they like to hit tennis balls for fun, and not play competitively, talk about how much fun it is, rather than focusing on perfecting the game. You start to feel burned out at some point, always being the encourager, but dont give up. When they are ready to ask questions, you will have some answers of experience. They may look to you for guidance when you least expect it.

Dont expect change overnight. We are all raised with different family backgrounds that make us who we are. If you were used to eating meat and potatoes every night for dinner, and now have been told to cut out bread and potatoes to lose weight, thats a tough habit to break. It takes patience, understanding which habits will help you feel your best, and moving towards new ideas that are healthy and still enjoyable.

I was raised having some sort of ice cream most nights before bed; do you wonder what I crave? Yes, ice cream is a habit that brings back the comforts of childhood, going to sleep with a full tummy, feeling like my sweet tooth was satisfied, and the memories of watching my mother mix milkshakes by hand.

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It was just a few years ago that Wanderlei Silva was on top of the world.

The Brazilian was wreaking havoc in Japan on an incredible 20-fight win streak while fighting under the Pride banner, and sitting as the best light heavyweight in the sport.

As times change and careers progress, Silva eventually moved back over to the UFC, the promotion he had fought for early in his MMA career, but didn't find the same type of success.

Call it age, call it competition catching up with him, but through six fights under his new UFC deal Silva was sitting with a 2-4 record and questions of retirement started to swirl.

UFC president Dana White seemed to encourage the idea because of Silva's long journey in the world of MMA, and some violent encounters with past opponents that either left him or the other guy laying in the center of the Octagon, unconscious.

It just wasn't in Wanderlei Silva to walk away, however; so he dusted himself off, picked himself up, got back in the gym and earned another shot in the UFC, and it paid off.

Silva put on a Fight of the Night performance with a victory over former Strikeforce middleweight champion Cung Le, and earned a spot coaching the first ever Ultimate Fighter in his native country of Brazil.

While he coached the entire season against Vitor Belfort, an injury forced Belfort out of the fight, so Silva will instead face Rich Franklin on June 23 in Brazil as the headline fight at UFC 147. One win doesn't erase the past, but Silva knows that one loss will absolutely bring up the questions again.

Is it time to retire? Is it time to walk away?

I have a lot of pressure in all the fights. Right now, all the fights I need to prove I can still fight. All the time I need to prove, and I'm going to prove it again that I'm still a really good fighter and can put on a really good show, Silva told MMAWeekly Radio.

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Holding debt isn't stopping Canadians from contributing to their retirement - but it does impact how much they can save

TORONTO, June 18, 2012 /CNW/ - Canadians holding debt are actively contributing to their retirement savings - but the more debt products they hold, the less they are able to put away for the future each month, according to a new CIBC (CM.TO) (CM) poll conducted by Harris/Decima.

Key Poll Findings:

"These poll results clearly illustrate the connection between good debt management and your ability to save for your long term financial goals," said Christina Kramer, Executive Vice President, Retail Distribution and Channel Strategy, CIBC. "Planning for a successful retirement involves more than just having a regular savings plan. It also requires a strategy to pay down debt, reduce interest costs, and redirect those funds towards long term savings."

Past CIBC research has shown the likelihood of holding debt peaks at age 45, and then declines. As Canadians pay down their debt they have an opportunity to direct more of those funds towards retirement. Ms. Kramer notes there is an opportunity for Canadians to look at their finances holistically to accelerate this curve.

"A positive finding from this poll is that Canadians appear to be very aware of the importance of putting away money for the long term, however balancing that against the immediate need to repay debt can be a challenge," added Ms. Kramer. "The message is not that holding any debt will negatively affect your future, it's that debt repayment needs to be managed appropriately to open up opportunities to accelerate retirement savings for the future."

Advice on Managing Debt:

For Canadians focused on paying down debt, Ms. Kramer offered debt management tips to take charge of their finances and reduce debt as part of their long term financial plan.

"There is a clear benefit to sitting down with an advisor and working through your plans on both the savings and debt management side of your finances to help you achieve what matters to you in the long term," added Ms. Kramer.

To learn more tips and try various debt repayment tools and calculators, visit the CIBC Advice Centre.

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According to papers filed with the New York State Division of Human Rights, employee Deborah Stevens worked for the billion-dollar Atlantic Automotive Group (AAG) dealership. When she learned her supervisor, Brucia, needed a kidney transplant, she volunteered hers.

Although her kidney didn't prove a match, they worked out an arrangement under which Stevens donated her kidney and this elevated Brucia on the recipient list and she received a timely transplant.

After the surgery, Brucia said "thanks more than I can ever say." However, the prior positive work relationship disintegrated. According to Stevens, the boss who formerly praised her and to whom she'd given a life-saving gift "started treating me horribly, viciously, inhumanely."

On a day when supervisor Brucia was home recuperating and Stevens left work because she felt ill, Stevens said Brucia called her asking "Why aren't you at work? ...You can't come and go as you please." In later encounters, Stevens said Brucia added "don't expect to be treated special because of what you did for me."

When Stevens told Brucia about her continuing medical issues, Brucia allegedly responded "I don't care; sounds like a personal problem." Stevens said when she cried, Brucia sent her out of the office.

Stevens contacted the company's human resources department officer, Jeff Peck. Jeff convened a meeting between Brucia and Stevens. At this meeting, Brucia critiqued Stevens' work performance. Stevens alleged Peck told Stevens the situation was "too personal." Later, Stevens said she heard that although she was a great employee, the company stood behind her manager.

Gradually supervisor Brucia removed Stevens' responsibilities, ultimately demoting her by banishment to a dealership informally called "Siberia" 50 miles from her home. This added 100 miles of commute time to an already pressured working mom and gave her a new boss who said "here come the fake tears" when Stevens cried.

Stevens sought psychiatric and legal advice. Shortly after Stevens' attorney sent a letter to AAG concerning Stevens' mental stress, the company offered Stevens a return to her former work location but then fired her. Stevens plans to sue AAG for millions for disability-related discrimination and retaliation.

This situation, which appears wrong on so many levels, inspires the desire to hang Brucia and the company that didn't adequately accommodate a medically-challenged employee who'd given so much to a supervisor. Further, it illuminates traps both employees and employers may fall into.

Like other victims, Stevens further demonizes an already unlikable supervisor. Stevens alleges Brucia only hired her to gain access to her kidney and "groomed" her as a "back up" donor. She bases this on a conversation she had with Brucia between her two stints at AAG, when Brucia told her she needed a transplant, had a possible donor and Stevens told her if something happened she'd be willing to donate her kidney.

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REDWOOD CITY, Calif.--(BUSINESS WIRE)--

Left Brain DGA, a Silicon Valley-basedDemand Generation Agency, today announced the one year anniversary of its partnership with personal computer giant Lenovo, an ongoing collaboration that has produced a series of successful demand generation programs.

We needed multi-disciplinary expertise to take our demand generation programs to the next level, said Steve Barnard, senior demand generation manager at Lenovo. After several months of searching for the right partner to develop and drive a comprehensive demand generation strategy, we recognized that most agencies are good at content, production or integration, but we needed all of these pieces under one roof. Left Brain delivers the whole package.

Lenovos need to deliver repeatable, predictable marketing-qualified leads (MQLs) across multiple markets and product lines with complex sales cycles required, among other things, a marketing automation tool. But after selecting Eloqua as the marketing automation tool of choice, Lenovo quickly realized the need to augment their demand generation strategy for optimal results. This included:

Lenovos requirements typify the complexity in buyer-centric B2B marketing today, said April Brown, vice president of demand generation strategy at Left Brain DGA. Success in B2B marketing requires a deep understanding of the behaviors and content consumption preferences of the modern buyer-centric landscape. Its essential to provide proven processes and technologies to support relevant lead nurturing and revenue generation.

Lenovos choice of Left Brain DGA to develop and partner to execute its demand generation programs strongly validates the unique processes we apply from our Left Brain Model, said Malcolm Friedberg, CEO of Left Brain DGA. Todays B2B sales environment is intolerant of cookie cutter marketing approaches and relies more on multi-disciplinary strategies that begin and end with knowing prospect and customer preferences in punishing detail. At the end of the day, were measured by our ability to help customers move the revenue needle in the right direction and the results of our Lenovo engagement point to a significant win-win for both organizations.

About Left Brain DGA

Left Brain DGA is a leading demand generation agency, serving some of the largest and best-known enterprise brands. The agency helps marketing organizations develop and grow successful demand generation programs. Its approach leverages a proprietary demand generation process model The Left Brain Model powered by marketing automation technology. The agency delivers a full set of services that span strategy, content, technology, analytics and optimization for demand generation programs.

Left Brain DGA is based in the heart of the Silicon Valley.

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More than 60 per cent of transformations fail, but why should this be a concern for CIOs? The fact is major technology projects are often transformation projects. These projects significantly change the way organisations conduct their business and how work gets done. Unfortunately, the reality is that the success rate of transformations is less than 40 per cent. When these projects fail, the CIOs are often blamed for the failure. So why do so many transformations fail?

There are many common barriers to success. Many organisations have learned to overcome these barriers and improve their success rates, so here are the top 10 barriers to transformation success and strategies organisations have used to overcome them:

Change is not easy. Change threatens our role, routines, work-practices, relationships and sense of control. We react by resisting the change. Many organisations increase the resistance by not having a clear and compelling vision for the change. When the vision is unclear, people are likely to be sceptical about the change in direction.

If people dont understand why a transformation is necessary, they will not join you on the bus. Leaders of successful transformations tell a compelling story that describes why change is necessary, what the future will look like and what the journey will involve. A good vision of the future has to be realistic and attainable. This vision has to be supported by clearly defined one to two year stretch goals and must outline the steps intended to achieve these goals.

One of the single biggest reasons transformations fail is because they do not have a visible and active sponsor. When the top leadership team is not seen to be actively championing the transformation, the rest of the organisation assumes (correctly) that this is just another initiative. As a result, the urgency for the need to change diminishes. Sponsorship is more than just attending the kick-off and occasionally sending memos or emails about the transformation.

When there is a track record of poorly implemented endeavours, people tend to not expect much when new changes are announced. Visible and strong sponsorship promotes a feeling that things are different this time. A strong sponsor will visibly support you, execute change and support you when roadblocks hamper the process. He or she needs to continually offer insight and guidance to keep things moving, and will offer ideas to resolve issues and broker solutions when needed.

In transformations, while there is agreement about the vision, each leader needs to act independently to achieve the vision. Leaders need to know the value of interdependence. When interdependence is not recognised between key players or groups, change in one area will often cause resistance in another.

Interdependence requires all parts of the organisation to act collectively to achieve common goals. Each leader must support the success of others. Leaders must accept that sometimes decisions that are good for the whole can be bad for their unit.

Lack of effective leadership also manifests as lack of middle-management support. When mid-level managers are not enrolled in the change process and lack a sense of involvement and ownership, they resist collective action.

The magnitude of the transformation challenge can be overwhelming for many organisations, resulting in ill-defined plans, priorities and structures.

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Does your business success or failure depend on what you do? Or what the world does to you?

Your answer will depend on what your own personal "locus of control" happens to be. Locus of control is a psychological term first coined by Julian B. Rotter in 1954 and it refers to how much individuals believe they can control events that affect them. Psychologists believe it's an essential element of all of our personalities.

Your locus (a Latin word meaning "place" or "location") can be either internal or external. If you have an internal locus of control, you think you're in charge of your life. If you succeed, you take the credit and if you fail, you blame yourself. If you define yourself with an external locus of control, however, you believe other people, your environment or a higher power controls what happens - you're helpless. That means it's easy to point the finger at everyone but yourself.

Obviously, most of us don't operate with a locus that's completely internal or external. But generally, we're more on the scale towards one or the other - and each have their own characteristics.

If you have a primarily external locus of control, you're more likely to:

* Believe luck, chance and/or fate decides what happens to you.

* Be negative and give up more easily when setbacks.

* Not reach out to create new relationships or try to repair old ones.

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